You don't have to have lived with someone for years to have them stick up for you and your reputation. He continues, “You need both deep and ‘shallow’ relationships. This is a losing battle because you might not ever get a chance to remedy the negative rumors yourself.” Otherwise, you're chasing a negative first impression. This highlights the importance of digging the well before you're thirsty and making sure you've got your relationships in place before you need them. If someone is spreading negative opinions about you, those can be counteracted by others who already know you. Harbinger says, “It’s network versus network. Instantly, she and others who knew him chimed in to say, “That surprises me as it’s so far from the person I know Jordan to be.” In doing so, they immediately shifted the tone of the conversation to protect his reputation. Harbinger was recently alerted by a friend that someone was speaking ill of him at a party she had. Harbinger shares, “Zoom out far enough on the timeline, and most of those people fade away because their identity is weighed down consistently by their futile mission to bring you to ruin.” Will this matter in a week? A month? Or a year? Probably not. So, if you're out there doing you, and they're out there mostly focused on you and how you're a terrible such-and-such, then over time, it actually makes them look bad, not you.”
“ However, it’s important to remember that most of the time, negativity is associated with the one spreading it, not just with the subject of the rumors.
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